Comments on: Loosing connection

By: kathrinx™

kathrinx™ — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 02:51:40 +0000

oh my..mahirap nga yan.. i suggest the proper thing to do is to talk with her regarding this matter. i hope the two of you will do good soon.. tc

By: Miss Cherry

Miss Cherry — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 02:46:39 +0000

Aww that really sucks. I felt lonely for what happened with your friendship. I already experienced the same with my ex-bestfriend. I thought we'll gonna be friends till the end but she's hanging out with her boyfriend almost all of the time. Well, I did confront her but she won't listen that's why I ended up our friendship. Not really ended but she's not my bestfriend anymore.

In your situation, you have to talk to her and tell her you're serious and you really need some good explanation. That's what I think is the best solution to your problem. If she won't listen, then, find another friend Always smile.

What do you think I shall do about my problem?
Don't think about it that much though I know it's a big deal. Just be happy w/ ur life.

Any thoughts on what she is doing?
Maybe she's just enjoying the company of the other guy.

By: Chiui

Chiui — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 00:29:12 +0000

@your comment: hahaha it's good that you love me. if you dont, i will kill you. HAHA loool. kidding.

By: iish

iish — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 15:57:11 +0000

i think you should talk to her again..if she refuses.. give her time..

By: Ericka

Ericka — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 02:53:54 +0000

That's sad. I guess she really have a hard problem. Maybe you should try talking to her alone. Try to ask her what's going on. And ask for her honesty. Can I ask something? Are you talking about the girl on your header? ^^;

By: grace

grace — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 19:19:47 +0000

oh, that's something really serious. she's being influenced badly by the guy? or maybe not just the guy. maybe she's into friends that are bad influences. talk to her seriously about it.

By: yvan

yvan — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 18:18:28 +0000

I think you should try asking her again but making her feel that:
1. she can trust you, and 2. you won't judge her no matter what she tells you… If she still doesn't want to tell you then I think you should just let her find her time to tell you. At least she knows that you're interested and willing to listen.

By: Gel

Gel — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 14:53:04 +0000

She's probably influenced by someone in the wrong way and I understand your concern considering that it's quite evident that she's a good friend of yours. Maybe you can write her a letter or maybe if you know her parents, you can seek them for advice/enlightenment?

By: Bloo

Bloo — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 06:54:51 +0000

Oliver,the only ability you have as a friend is letting her know that you're there for her and just give a little warning or some sign about what she's getting herself into,(if you KNOW what she's getting into.)

The rest is up to her.Her choices,her dilemmas,her life.Ofcourse,you want your friend to be safe and happy etc,but the thing is,these days people just don't listen.If i tell one of my friends to stop smoking because it's bad for his health,do you honestly think he'll listen to me? The only way they'll know what you mean,is by experiencing and seeing the effects,which yeah,sometimes it's too late to turn back.But I as a friend already did my job,now it's up to him to decide.

Are you with me?
That's just my opinion.Everyone lives and learns,sometimes they learn a little too late,but if they don't listen,what else can you do?

This weekend was very interesting as I began talking with this old friend of mine,and he began spilling out everything he regretted and you know what? He learned a lot.And although it was the hard way,he still learned,and he'll take this pot of experience and feed what's inside to others so they can be knowledgeable as well.So they can make the right decision.But they still have the choice of being ignorant.It'll always be there.Some will isolate it,some will go with it.

Everyone's an indivual,and all you can really do,is warn them and be there for them.

By: Chiui

Chiui — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 06:08:33 +0000

are you inlove with her? HAHAHA just kidding.
anyway, um. my sister is experiencing the same thing. bad influence. well, try talking to her, and if she doesnt pay attention, then im not sure if she's really your friend yknao. let her learn by herself. the hard way.
any thoughts on what she's doing? um.. probably bad influence.